SEX- WARNING MAY BE EXPLICIT..

I bet if my girlfriend was to read the title, she would be like oh "yes! our fave subject!" hehehe I remember those days where we had no kids and we were just dating and its something we'd always talked about like "so what's your fave position?" or "Did you get an orgasm with him?" hehehe Yes... sex is one of my favorite subjects and yes it's something I like to do "a lot". I remember when me and hubby were dating we'd go at it like cat's and dog's brawling lol at least twice a day...that was 8 yrs ago. At around the the 3 yr mark and after having 2 kids, sex just got less and less....I'm guessing I had it once a week or maybe less? It just wasn't exciting or arousing I should say, it felt more like a chore. I think when you have kids to take care of, you just don't give a shit about anything because your so exhausted from doing daily household chores and caring for the children and from my experience I think that's what made my libido go way down. Oh another thing I had realize was that hubby and I rarely or ever had make out sessions in the past. Because our sex life then sucked so bad, so was our relationship. Many things came into play about why sex sucked or why we didn't do it...my depression, my weight gain (I was overweight), I was on med's, the kids, stress, no foreplay, no lovey dovey or make out sessions...And because of all this, ultimately divorce was in question, several times in fact. With that said do you see why it's important to stay healthy (mind & body), get pampered (relieve stress), make out as much as possible and have as much sex as you can! I DO!!! I got my act together...no longer overweight, off the med's, I get a pedi/mani/massage every now and then to relieve stress, as well as rid of the kids so I can spend time with hubby! Very important! Because of all of this- SEX is better then it was years ago & I'm getting it way more then I did 3-4 yrs ago. It definitely doesn't feel like a chore anymore, I actually want to do it and so does he! I swear I get plenty of orgasm's now then I did in the beginning of our relationship. On top of everything we have make out sessions way more as well. I do see a big change in my sex life it went from good to really bad to WOW! In my opinion, sex plays a great role in marriage, it's the connection that only you and your spouse can share. If your getting less of it on a consistent bases, that may be a red flag that your marriage could be heading for trouble, I know that in mines it did. But I was able to see the problem, find out what the causes were solve them and voila! Problem- Solved. Also remember that giving your man as much as he wants will steer clear of him cheating on you, I mean seriously if you ain't given him what he needs, who else is he going to get it from?? My morale of my post is for you all to have lots and lots of sex! If its sucks like it did for me in the past, something else may be going wrong in your life and you need to get it fixed asap then I promise you it'll feel so much better, it all falls into place! Tell me I'm right?