It's been awhile since I wrote anything! For good reason though, I have been busy with my family doing all kinds of fun stuff. At one point myself and the hub was going to the movies at least once a week for an entire month! It wasnt planned out, it just happened! During the holidays my husband was on vacation so we got to all spend time alot of time with one another focusing mostly on the kids, other family members and not ourselves. Well we are due for a date nite again! Hopefully it happens sometime soon. My goal for this year is to take a "romantic" couples only trip to a neighbor island and just realax and enjoy ourselves. We have done it in the past and it's a great way to reconnect with eachother. If we have the money we try to take this so called trip once a year, if not then we would get a hotel room for couple days to unwind. We do one or the other every year! Its good for the body, mind and soul. I want our marriage to be a healthy one and so does he, so I guess our resolution is to have a "healthy" marriage. Whats considered healthy? Well in our case its for us to not argue about things that dont matter, no abuse-weather its emotional, mental, verbal etc. (I can get kocky at times and put him down) It's about satisfying our needs/wants through eachother, complementing & appreciating. Depending on the amount of money we have, we plan to going to the island of Maui for the Valentines weekend, I hope it works out, if not we can always kick in a waikiki hotel..
